Heart Healing for Birth Loss
No one wants or likes to talk about death in birth, but birth and death are not that different. One cannot exist without the other. New life is born from a mysterious place and the end of life goes back to that mysterious place once birthed from. Life is cyclical and it takes us into the experience and or awareness of birth, rebirth, and death.
Loss can change lives, loss can perceive to damage lives, loss can heal lives, and loss is something we all share in because it is apart of living and being. It is a great tragedy when loss happens in birth early in miscarriage or later with fetal demise. It may seem like time stands still and suddenly your life is changed forever. It is shocking and no one is ever prepared for the news of death of family member, friend and child.
Losing a baby will change one forever and one will cope and adaption to life differently and work towards healing in away that may have not been known before. The loss of a child is not a punishment or meant be build fear. One must move into grieving and other emotions that are appropriate within loss.
Some believe we have 5 steps to grief and in no order must address the fullness of it. The soul is a wise energy of consciousness and your child in soul is open to communicate with you and to you. Your heart knows truth and it is about trusting that connection. YOUR child hears every word you share, every thought you share, and every feeling you share. You can continue the relationship (through the veils) and do not be fearful of that or doubtful. Understand that your baby's soul is continuing in another reality that overlaps our earth world. Be open to receive it.
I support women to listen, feel, and sense their child in soul. Your child may be gone in physical body, but your child is a powerful energy of love and a light of consciousness. They are living in another space and YOU can continue to grow and develop a loving relationship. Your baby IS ready and open to communicate with you. I can bridge your baby with you and share messages.
Birth Loss Within Fertility
Your conception journey may be deeply challenging and you may be diagnosed with infertility known and unknown. Your loss of fertility may come with treatments of IVF or IUI where many rounds offer failure. Your loss can be not having a baby, miscarriages, blighted ovum, endometriosis, cystic fibroids, ovulation disorder, cervical issues, sperm issues, and or other issues. Each person experiences something different when struggling to conceive and your unique life holds the reasons and answers in your own soul and energy body. The lack of conception is a personal spiritual journey along with your partner and the soul of your baby or babies.
Conception is never a one sided experience even if all the tests and medical explorations comes down to the woman; A women must embody the fears, pains, treatments, and emotions of it all. Women are natural creators, hosts to life, intuitive healing beings, and emotional energies of consciousness. Your baby may be waiting for you to call him or her into your life. The soul of your baby is open and ready to communicate with you. You can achieve your dreams of motherhood and create that family you desire. Sometimes it may not be through your body, but other loving bodies with the options of surrogacy, egg donation, and adoption. All amazing and beautiful gifts! Create space and time to connect with your baby in spirit and see what messages they share with you.
Birth Loss within (Miscarriage)
You pregnancy ended up within days to weeks in your early trimester. Maybe you have experienced a miscarriage or multiply miscarriages and your heart grieves to find answers to your loss. Grieving is your connection to healing your loss and without that you can easily fall into post traumatic stress (PTS/ PSTD) or other emotional issues. Your loss is no mistake by you especially in a wanted and loved pregnancy. You may want to understand why it happened. Find meaning in it and allow yourself to take it slow and give your body time to not be pregnant and create a ritual or healing practice after and continue to experience healing on other levels. Holistic healing can offer more support in your loss with herbal support, flower essences, homeopathy, body work, and counseling. Your baby in soul is open and ready to connect with you. You can call in your baby and invite them back into your life. Don't look at miscarriage as if you did something wrong, but look at it as a healing message. Your baby will always be with you.
Birth Loss within (Abortion/Termination)
You are pregnant and you are not able to follow through with your pregnancy whether it be personal life choice or medical concerns. You are conflicted to abort your baby or to keep your baby...this is normal. Only YOU can make that choice in pre/termination and feel prepared for the deep emotions that will be expressed because you are going to be grieving the loss of your baby. It is an automatic human response even if it was your choice and that is important to understand. You have to give yourself permission to experience loss and emotions connected with it without holding back or being in denial.
Many women experience a need for forgiveness, feel anger, feel betrayal, feel lonely, feel isolated, feel empty and so on. Others may feel relief, positive, healing, and okay. Just like miscarriage holistic healing can offer more support in your loss with herbal support, flower essences, homeopathy, body work, and counseling. If you struggle with your choice daily or years later (especially with regret/ guilt) then connecting with your baby in spirit can help support your healing. Your baby is NOT mad at you for it and your baby LOVES you. Your baby in spirit world will stay with you until you decided to birth into this life or they stay with your soul if you are not ready to ever step into parenthood.
Abortion is NOT murder or damnation into "hell." Yes, a potential life was preparing to enter this world and he or she is not gone and deeper healing may be needed to get clarity and awareness in your loss. In any loss your unique reasons and understanding will come with self exploration into your emotional, mental, and spiritual self. Learn more about Intentional Miscarriage through a private spiritual practice of working with the spirit baby and your soul body. Visit BLOG to read about it!
Birth Loss within ( Fetal Demise/ SIDS )
You have lost a baby after childbirth. It may be in birth, moments after birth, or weeks. Your heart is deeply devastated and your grief is heavy. You may be trying to figure out what went wrong or why it happened or how it could have been different. This is your natural response to loss and making sense of it all. Sometimes there are no medical reasons, other times medical negligence, and seeming accidents of birth, but I want to TAKE you into the spiritual world for those answers. IT is hard to understand why a soul chooses NOT to come into life. Sometimes the physical body is just not working right and other times a soul decides it is not the right timing. This is a private and deeply awakened inner journey of spiritual depth and love. Your baby is a very powerful being and he or she knows why and what it means for them and you. It is a parents inner connections to the self that creates awareness and healing. Your baby does connect with you and all you need to do is share your words and feelings with them. Communication with the soul will allow you to continue a growing and loving relationship of love and memories.